You had a romantic
relationship with your ex for a while and now, suddenly, it’s over. They
are many ways to get your ex back but one in particular that might have cross
your mind is: Can we be friends…
The answer to this is
simple: No. Why? Because the two haven’t fully moved on yet and because
there is still lots of dust in the air between you two. Unanswered
questions, bad vibes, insecurity and let’s face it, one of you couldn’t stand
the other any longer or has any desire to continue the relationship. But
this happens when the breakup first occurs. You can be friends (if you
really want to but I don’t suggest it), but not until all the clouds has
cleared.
A lot of people fall for
the mistake to hang onto their ex as “friends” so that they can still enjoy
their presence, be around them and have a false sense of security that just
don’t help the break up to
progress. By lying to
themselves and to their ex, they consciously (or not) pretend wanting a
friendship and nothing more. Right…But the reality is that at the expense
of their mental health and emotional stability they will opt for a fake
friendship that won’t last long as what they really hope for is a second chance.
Avoid at all cost this
friend trap. It is not fair to you and to your ex. Until you fell
for a great sens of happiness by hearing about their new romantic
relationship, then you are not ready to be friends. Because a friend
would not feel jealousy, but would be happy for their friend and their new
relationship. See, this type of relationship always leads to the same
troubles. What will obviously happen here is that the friendship will
blow up once one of you gets romantically interested in someone else.
The
ex gets all upset cause thinking things were getting better between you two and
the other one is confuse and upset as well thinking the friendship was real.
Instead, a jealous and uptight ex is hanging around.
If you want to find ways to get your ex back, it is vital that you use the right tactics.
And building a friendship too early will not only bring irreversible
damages to your relationship with your ex but will also kill any future
chance to win your ex back.
Sure, you can be friends
with your ex. After you are over them. But chances are that
there will be little reason to be friends once you have moved on.
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