Whenever you had a
problem with your ex-girlfriend, or even your current one, look into your
attitude and where you were wrong. You might have fall into one of male
traits below. To get your ex back or to put the relationship where it’s supposed
to be, you will have to change the way you behave and change your patterns
around her.
INSECURITY: NOTHING turns off a woman more than a
man insecure. Insecurity comes under different faces.
JEALOUSY: The pain in the butt boyfriend… Needs to
know every guys that talks to his girlfriend. He thinks he looks masculine by protecting
his ‘’territory’’. In fact, his girlfriend hates his constant
questionings and regular investigations about her whereabouts. Deep down,
he is weak and is scared to lose is girlfriend to another man. He doesn’t
value himself as worthy for his girlfriend and feel in constant competition
with other men. He will put down or make fun of every single man that talk or
hang with his girlfriend. The more he is jealous the more he pushes is
girlfriend into other men’s arms because she sees him as weak and insecure.
LOOKING FOR APPROVAL:
Do you still love me?
Do you like when we have
sex?
Do you want to do this
tonight?
Are you happy with me?
Do I look good?
Even worst: Do you mind
if I go out with the guys tonight?
Women love a man that is
secure about himself and knows what he wants. The secure man doesn’t
ask. He knows. Find out when you could have
been looking for her approval during the relationship.
BEING CLINGY: Spending all your time with your
girlfriend and doing everything she wants when she
wants won’t make her happy. Your woman needs to be on her toes once in a
while. No matter what she might say, deep down inside she needs you to be
busy on something and not being always with her. Precious stones are
‘precious’ and wanted because they are rare. She needs to
miss you in order to remind her how much she values you.
PUTTING HER ON A PEDESTAL: Your woman is
starving for a man that value himself as much as he values her. She is
craving for a man that stand for his ideas and won’t adjust his
opinions to match hers. The day you gave her a higher value than yourself
is the day she began losing respect for you. You need also learn to say
NO more often. Don’t let her calling the shots all the time and make all
the decisions.
Women are repulsed by
insecure men so if you see yourself in the above male traits, it’s time for a
change. When things are not doing too well between the two of you, look
again and see if you are not falling back in old patterns.
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